Is love real

[A.P]

I’ve been going through another rough patch mentally (suicidal thought, feeling empty, yk the usual bitch boy stuff) and I’ve been wondering if true love or any love is real. I’m 18 (ik it’s still kinda young) and I have only felt actual feeling for one girl in my live (any she gay now so I can’t spin back LUL) and still have my KHHV status. I’ve always thought that a relationship or dealing with any girl is a waste of time as it provides almost nothing positive for me. But that’s could also be bc I’ve never felt love for another in that way. So I’m asking the people who have felt this love of it’s even worth it to stress over this and if that love is as good as people say. Bc although I’ve never seen a purpose in a relationship the thought of someone loving you for who you are is something I’ve always deep down craved for. So my view on love is screwed in that aspect as idk what it is or if it’s even real.
(Before anyone say jbg I truly with I could be attracted to dudes as Mabye then I’d feel the need to find love)

 

[Sunny Sunny]

I’ve been going through another rough patch mentally (suicidal thought, feeling empty, yk the usual bitch boy stuff) and I’ve been wondering if true love or any love is real. I’m 18 (ik it’s still kinda young) and I have only felt actual feeling for one girl in my live (any she gay now so I can’t spin back LUL) and still have my KHHV status. I’ve always thought that a relationship or dealing with any girl is a waste of time as it provides almost nothing positive for me. But that’s could also be bc I’ve never felt love for another in that way. So I’m asking the people who have felt this love of it’s even worth it to stress over this and if that love is as good as people say. Bc although I’ve never seen a purpose in a relationship the thought of someone loving you for who you are is something I’ve always deep down craved for. So my view on love is screwed in that aspect as idk what it is or if it’s even real.
(Before anyone say jbg I truly with I could be attracted to dudes as Mabye then I’d feel the need to find love)

21 yo KHHV here ive never gotten past a talking stage ever (at most all i got was one movie "date" my entire life and thats it) so i guess not

 

[A.P]

21 yo KHHV here ive never gotten past a talking stage ever (at most all i got was one movie "date" my entire life and thats it) so i guess not

I aswell have only been on movie “date” my whole life lul

 

[danielspecialday!]

I’ve been going through another rough patch mentally (suicidal thought, feeling empty, yk the usual bitch boy stuff) and I’ve been wondering if true love or any love is real. I’m 18 (ik it’s still kinda young) and I have only felt actual feeling for one girl in my live (any she gay now so I can’t spin back LUL) and still have my KHHV status. I’ve always thought that a relationship or dealing with any girl is a waste of time as it provides almost nothing positive for me. But that’s could also be bc I’ve never felt love for another in that way. So I’m asking the people who have felt this love of it’s even worth it to stress over this and if that love is as good as people say. Bc although I’ve never seen a purpose in a relationship the thought of someone loving you for who you are is something I’ve always deep down craved for. So my view on love is screwed in that aspect as idk what it is or if it’s even real.
(Before anyone say jbg I truly with I could be attracted to dudes as Mabye then I’d feel the need to find love)

I aswell have only been on movie “date” my whole life lul

ik this might not mean much but real talk im 16, ive been in a relationship that mightve looked "real" on the outside but was actually draining. My ex isolated me and made it feel as if i held no control over my own life. and for a long time, i thought that was just how love worked but getting out made me realize love should never make you feel alone or powerless. To the guys asking if love is real, being single (even at 21) is painful, but it’s better than being trapped in a relationship that drains you. Real love builds you up, it doesnt break you down.

 

[Edmond Dantès]

Sure, love exists only as a neurochemical and biological drive. There is no metaphysical aspect of love.

 

[Flint]

If you mean entering a relationship where it feels safe, satisfying, happy, enjoyable, and where you're excited for the future, then yes. But it's not easy to find. I found @The Wife when I was 20 and she was 26, we both struggled with relationships up until we met each other. I'm sure an aspect that helped is we're both autistic as fuck but lmao. And the beginning of our relationship had it struggles but I can't imagine a world without her.

 

[The WifeThe Wife is verified member.]

I'm sure an aspect that helped is we're both autistic as fuck but lmao.

I have no idea what you're even a little bit referring to here. Let's settle this like men, with single combat. Roll for initiative but know because of my coffee consumption I can justify having the Alert feat which gives me a +5 bonus to the attack order

 

[God]

I have no idea what you're even a little bit referring to here. Let's settle this like men, with single combat. Roll for initiative but know because of my coffee consumption I can justify having the Alert feat which gives me a +5 bonus to the attack order

> "im not autistic"
> proceeds to say autistic shit

 

[tomkyle]

Yes it is and you should try to find it

 

[TonyDrTonyDr is verified member.]

I’ve been going through another rough patch mentally (suicidal thought, feeling empty, yk the usual bitch boy stuff) and I’ve been wondering if true love or any love is real. I’m 18 (ik it’s still kinda young) and I have only felt actual feeling for one girl in my live (any she gay now so I can’t spin back LUL) and still have my KHHV status. I’ve always thought that a relationship or dealing with any girl is a waste of time as it provides almost nothing positive for me. But that’s could also be bc I’ve never felt love for another in that way. So I’m asking the people who have felt this love of it’s even worth it to stress over this and if that love is as good as people say. Bc although I’ve never seen a purpose in a relationship the thought of someone loving you for who you are is something I’ve always deep down craved for. So my view on love is screwed in that aspect as idk what it is or if it’s even real.
(Before anyone say jbg I truly with I could be attracted to dudes as Mabye then I’d feel the need to find love)

Love is real
Is anybody, everybody is gonna experience it ? No

 

[iblamenose]

I’ve been going through another rough patch mentally (suicidal thought, feeling empty, yk the usual bitch boy stuff) and I’ve been wondering if true love or any love is real. I’m 18 (ik it’s still kinda young) and I have only felt actual feeling for one girl in my live (any she gay now so I can’t spin back LUL) and still have my KHHV status. I’ve always thought that a relationship or dealing with any girl is a waste of time as it provides almost nothing positive for me. But that’s could also be bc I’ve never felt love for another in that way. So I’m asking the people who have felt this love of it’s even worth it to stress over this and if that love is as good as people say. Bc although I’ve never seen a purpose in a relationship the thought of someone loving you for who you are is something I’ve always deep down craved for. So my view on love is screwed in that aspect as idk what it is or if it’s even real.
(Before anyone say jbg I truly with I could be attracted to dudes as Mabye then I’d feel the need to find love)

It’s lowk a positive that you’re a khhv. As ironic as that sounds, it’s better than getting into a new relationship every other week and gaining nothing from it. And in a way you can save it for the right person. People who aren’t virgins tend to regret their first quite often. There will be someone out there, just don’t be in a rush to look for one. There shouldn’t be any mind games to it as well. You don’t need to over analyse a message etc. If it’s true it’ll be natural and you’ll be able to see their genuine interest easily.

 

[fishynerdy]

I’ve been going through another rough patch mentally (suicidal thought, feeling empty, yk the usual bitch boy stuff) and I’ve been wondering if true love or any love is real. I’m 18 (ik it’s still kinda young) and I have only felt actual feeling for one girl in my live (any she gay now so I can’t spin back LUL) and still have my KHHV status. I’ve always thought that a relationship or dealing with any girl is a waste of time as it provides almost nothing positive for me. But that’s could also be bc I’ve never felt love for another in that way. So I’m asking the people who have felt this love of it’s even worth it to stress over this and if that love is as good as people say. Bc although I’ve never seen a purpose in a relationship the thought of someone loving you for who you are is something I’ve always deep down craved for. So my view on love is screwed in that aspect as idk what it is or if it’s even real.
(Before anyone say jbg I truly with I could be attracted to dudes as Mabye then I’d feel the need to find love)

Im turning 16 soon and have only been in love twice which were my first and second gfs
neither rls went too well so every girl after that haven't rlly felt the same. I think the reason I felt so in love with them is because I genuinely thought it would last and stuff (first gf was 3 months and second 2 weeks lmao)
I do get the point of relationships not providing much benefits which is why id say being single but still receiving attention from girls is best option ig.

 

[iblamenose]

Im turning 16 soon and have only been in love twice which were my first and second gfs
neither rls went too well so every girl after that haven't rlly felt the same. I think the reason I felt so in love with them is because I genuinely thought it would last and stuff (first gf was 3 months and second 2 weeks lmao)
I do get the point of relationships not providing much benefits which is why id say being single but still receiving attention from girls is best option ig.

You’re still very young, a new girl may not feel the same rn but give it time. Girls can be deceiving and may give you false hope. It’ll be clear when the right one comes. And tbh if you haven’t done sexual things with them you should be alright with getting over them. And even if you have, eventually it’ll be fine. 3 months isn’t a very long time at all. And don’t lose your v card rn, it isn’t worth it (I got left a week later and she got with another guy)

 

[fishynerdy]

You’re still very young, a new girl may not feel the same rn but give it time. Girls can be deceiving and may give you false hope. It’ll be clear when the right one comes. And tbh if you haven’t done sexual things with them you should be alright with getting over them. And even if you have, eventually it’ll be fine. 3 months isn’t a very long time at all. And don’t lose your v card rn, it isn’t worth it (I got left a week later and she got with another guy)

yh I have gotten over them tbh I haven't lost my v card or had a kiss lmao
ik a couple of my friends have and they seem stuck in this cycle of just always seeking for female validation

 

[iblamenose]

yh I have gotten over them tbh I haven't lost my v card or had a kiss lmao
ik a couple of my friends have and they seem stuck in this cycle of just always seeking for female validation

Bruh if you haven’t even kissed them don’t stress at all. I can only speak based on my personal experience and trying to chase girls at 15/16 is pathetic. Most of the time they are attention whores and won’t be loyal to you. I have only been with one girl before, and I don’t want to for at least 5+ years. You may think I’m being dramatic. School reputation gone because of false rumours she made. Lost friends. Fell for her lies. She’d send explicit pics to other people. Got manipulated into losing my v card and I did it so she wouldn’t leave and almost immediately I get blocked and she’s dating another guy. She couldn’t wait and has already had sex with him not even 3 months being with him. I really believe you should just focus on yourself atm. Relationships are pointless so young as they’re all desperate and they just NEED a person to call their boyfriend/girlfriend.

 

[fishynerdy]

Bruh if you haven’t even kissed them don’t stress at all. I can only speak based on my personal experience and trying to chase girls at 15/16 is pathetic. Most of the time they are attention whores and won’t be loyal to you. I have only been with one girl before, and I don’t want to for at least 5+ years. You may think I’m being dramatic. School reputation gone because of false rumours she made. Lost friends. Fell for her lies. She’d send explicit pics to other people. Got manipulated into losing my v card and I did it so she wouldn’t leave and almost immediately I get blocked and she’s dating another guy. She couldn’t wait and has already had sex with him not even 3 months being with him. I really believe you should just focus on yourself atm. Relationships are pointless so young as they’re all desperate and they just NEED a person to call their boyfriend/girlfriend.

damn
I hope u better now.
im grateful i havent had any bad relationship experiences.
I do enjoy working on myself but there's times where having a gf would be nice lol.
I think also me being rlly bad at texting has probably helped me avoid any bad relationships cuz they never formed in the place lmao.
Thanks bro