Is love real

Im turning 16 soon and have only been in love twice which were my first and second gfs
neither rls went too well so every girl after that haven't rlly felt the same. I think the reason I felt so in love with them is because I genuinely thought it would last and stuff (first gf was 3 months and second 2 weeks lmao)
I do get the point of relationships not providing much benefits which is why id say being single but still receiving attention from girls is best option ig.
You’re still very young, a new girl may not feel the same rn but give it time. Girls can be deceiving and may give you false hope. It’ll be clear when the right one comes. And tbh if you haven’t done sexual things with them you should be alright with getting over them. And even if you have, eventually it’ll be fine. 3 months isn’t a very long time at all. And don’t lose your v card rn, it isn’t worth it (I got left a week later and she got with another guy)