Discussion What matters in a relationship

[zen zen]

So in the blackpill community or the "looksmaxxing" community people say that looks matter and it's the most important and I agree with that but the thing is once most looksmaxxers actually start succeeding they're probably not gonna be an incel but they need to realise that looks alone won't get u in an enjoyable long term relationship like let's say a person becomes very attractive from "looksmaxxing" they would obviously wanna find their looksmatch or someone similar to their looks correct? Well when you're looking for a partner of similar looks level personality is gonna matter because they're in a similar level of attractiveness to you if I was gonna date my looksmatch i wouldn't want her to be a shit person so just in general a chunk of looksmaxxers or people in the community are nd or have self esteem issues/other issues and those people should try to learn how to communicate and socialise along with trying to fix confidence and self esteem issues if they have them since that will be important if u want to experience actual love in a long term relationship maybe with just looks u can get some sluts or mansluts to sleep with u if they're on the same level of attractiveness maybe or below but that's just for pleasure and will never be a long term relationship where you actually experience love water thread tho people who have thought about this critically will usually have realised this
Looks still matter because it's the prerequisite for getting into a relationship and in general will benefit u a lot more than personality i think the thing is 70/30 for looks
Summary:Usually even if you become attractive you won't experience good love if u have a bad/very bad personality with ur looksmatch

I want thoughts on this and I'm open to hearing you and debating if you want.

 

[fei]

If you really think about it looks are the most important aspect in maintaining or gaining relationships because you could look at a weird ugly guy and he will be called a creep but a weird handsome guy will be called kinky, even if theyre dumb they wont be attacked bout it well for most of the time unless your extremely dumb but to answer your question you need looks to get a partner but to truly maintain them sometimes and i mean sometimes because girls would actually go for bad boys you need personality

 

[copingmaxnt copingmaxnt]

Usually even if you become attractive you won't experience good love if u have a bad/very bad personality with ur looksmatch

im short anyways so im NEVER getting that JFL