What matters in a relationship

If you really think about it looks are the most important aspect in maintaining or gaining relationships because you could look at a weird ugly guy and he will be called a creep but a weird handsome guy will be called kinky, even if theyre dumb they wont be attacked bout it well for most of the time unless your extremely dumb but to answer your question you need looks to get a partner but to truly maintain them sometimes and i mean sometimes because girls would actually go for bad boys you need personality