Seeking Advice What are your favourite methods of relaxing

[got.daim]

I like to lay down on my recliner and take my belt off, and my shirt if I am hot, then, I put on music and sleep

 

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i struggle to relax i think, im pretty extroverted so i def regain my energy after a good yap sesh. but im always afraid to relax, terrible habit

 

[got.daim]

i struggle to relax i think, im pretty extroverted so i def regain my energy after a good yap sesh. but im always afraid to relax, terrible habit

I am diagnosed with anti social something, I do not know the name

I am an introvert IRL, but online I feel like my stress disappears because of the disappearance of facial expressions and being around people

I have also been diagnosed with Autism (high-functioning) and ADD (similar to that of ADHD, just without the hyper)

I get frightened when around other people very easily, I used to date this one lady online but she randomly stopped texting me so I sent her a breakup text (never responded), she still posted on social media so I do not know, I do not understand women and normal people in general, I tend to do better in certain 'niches', such as alt-lit groups, or around other people with similar understandings of the world

 

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I am an introvert IRL, but online I feel like my stress disappears because of the disappearance of facial expressions and being around people

that's interesting, i feel like i have equal amounts of stress or excitement online or offline, depending on how much i feel capable of communicating.

I have also been diagnosed with Autism (high-functioning) and ADD (similar to that of ADHD, just without the hyper)

same, as long as anxiety and depression and junk like that

I used to date this one lady online but she randomly stopped texting me so I sent her a breakup text (never responded), she still posted on social media so I do not know

it sounds like she ghosted you, which is unfortunate. was the relationship established as romantic or was it kind of a 'indirect' / 'we're talking' phase? do you think that wouldve changed how you viewed the situation?

I do not understand women and normal people in general, I tend to do better in certain 'niches', such as alt-lit groups, or around other people with similar understandings of the world

that's understandable to a certain degree i imagine. if u feel most comfortable in certain types of groups and world views, i imagine it's just easier to seek it out than to always have to fight against it for reasons outside of urself. alt-lit bein alternative literature, right?

 

[got.daim]

that's interesting, i feel like i have equal amounts of stress or excitement online or offline, depending on how much i feel capable of communicating.

I feel like online connections are really 'true' in a sense, idk, it all doesn't feel the same

Then again when you're actually talking to someone, you're talking to THEM, while here I'm just clicking things and then someone's reads and interprets it where while yes it is still frightening that they have their own depiction of myself in their head it's less frightening because it's the idea of anonymity where they do not really know me and they are across the globe

it sounds like she ghosted you, which is unfortunate. was the relationship established as romantic or was it kind of a 'indirect' / 'we're talking' phase? do you think that wouldve changed how you viewed the situation?

it was direct, we were dating for around 5 months, I bought her a valentines gift and we had done sexual acts together over messaging platforms, she told me it was her first time doing anything like that with another person, it was the same for me, but I do not know how much I believed in that, I am sad, I viewed a future with her, she looked normal, she was also into the looksmax sphere too, she called the BP retarded and said looks do not matter, but I guess they do, her actions did not reflect her words, maybe it was better that we ended things, she did tell me that she was an avoidant but idk, I feel sick, I think I am an anxious attachment person? I would always get gut wrenching feelings about small things that happened like her old social media reposts and posts, and same with her friends posting hearts onto her things, even though the friend was a male, I do not understand people like that, maybe it was for the better

that's understandable to a certain degree i imagine. if u feel most comfortable in certain types of groups and world views, i imagine it's just easier to seek it out than to always have to fight against it for reasons outside of urself. alt-lit bein alternative literature, right?

indeed, but even then I feel like they just mask their degenerate nature