Experiences Understanding mutual respect in relationships

[God]

Don't listen to the redpilled nonsense famous figures like Andrew Tate or clavicular are throwing around.

Being disrespectful, rude and dismissive will never give you girls and will never lead to a happy relationship. There's one good thing these gurus promote - which is confidence.. but there's a fine line between being confident and being an asshole.

A man/woman who has long term plans and opinions doesn't need to belittle their partner or play weird mind games to feel in control, that entire concept comes from insecurity.

Mutual respect shouldn't be anything special, it's literally the bare minimum to a happy relationship, you don't build anything out of manipulation and ego.

A good, strong, long lasting relationship is built on:

- trust
- clear boundaries
- honesty
- mutual investment
- control
- patience

It's not built on who can dominate the other. (although in bed is a different thing.)

A lot of guys i see on other forums, or the internet in general, will sabotage themselves by thinking if they be like andrew tate, all the girls will want them, when it couldn't be further away from the truth.

Be respectful to your partner, and you'll recieve respect from them.

 

[got.daim]

TL;DR?

 

[TonyDrTonyDr is verified member.]

A lot of guys i see on other forums, or the internet in general, will sabotage themselves by thinking if they be like andrew tate, all the girls will want them, when it couldn't be further away from the truth.

I somehow agree because being toxic will just attract toxic hoes with huge mental health issues, and you prob don't want that as a long term girlfriend

 

[God]

TL;DR?

mutual respect is the key to a successful and long relationship

 

[Yun]

Don't listen to the redpilled nonsense famous figures like Andrew Tate or clavicular are throwing around.

Being disrespectful, rude and dismissive will never give you girls and will never lead to a happy relationship. There's one good thing these gurus promote - which is confidence.. but there's a fine line between being confident and being an asshole.

A man/woman who has long term plans and opinions doesn't need to belittle their partner or play weird mind games to feel in control, that entire concept comes from insecurity.

Mutual respect shouldn't be anything special, it's literally the bare minimum to a happy relationship, you don't build anything out of manipulation and ego.

A good, strong, long lasting relationship is built on:

- trust
- clear boundaries
- honesty
- mutual investment
- control
- patience

It's not built on who can dominate the other. (although in bed is a different thing.)

A lot of guys i see on other forums, or the internet in general, will sabotage themselves by thinking if they be like andrew tate, all the girls will want them, when it couldn't be further away from the truth.

Be respectful to your partner, and you'll recieve respect from them.

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hard agree, i don't get why so many bad traits are getting promoted on most bp forums. so much bad stuff is normalized which won't make you happy in the long term, slaying will not work forever everyone gets old, and it won't make someone happy on the long term too

 

[got.daim]

mutual respect is the key to a successful and long relationship

But then the women would cheat, no?

 

[God]

But then the women would cheat, no?

no, she's way less likely to cheat when you give her what she wants In a relationship.

 

[got.daim]

no, she's way less likely to cheat when you give her what she wants In a relationship.

Women want a leader, either they submit to you or another man at the end of the day

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

Women want a leader, either they submit to you or another man at the end of the day

That's why gay relationships are better

 

[got.daim]

That's why gay relationships are better

Agree, let's be fags together in DMs