Megathread Question of the week

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QOTW is a weekly thread series started by @gato, where a simple question is asked every week. You're allowed to respond to the threads regardless of how old they are, so I created this mega-thread to serve as a central hub for those wishing to participate in the previous questions.

This thread would also serve a hub to recommend questions, leave criticism or feedback, or anything else related to the thread series.

2025 QOTW​

• Do opposites attract?
• Should you always take supplements/vitamins?
• Is it possible to exercise too much?
• What stops you from doing more work/education?
• Does work give life more meaning?
• Can you love a partner without physical attraction?
• How necessary is a capsule wardrobe for improvement?
• Can you be "universally attractive" AND "extremely alternative"?

2026 QOTW​

• How much should you invest in your appearance?
• Can you be too tall or too short?

 

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criticism not allowed actually

 

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Last QOTW for 2025 was posted ->

Discussion Thread '[QOTW #8] Can you be "universally attractive" AND "extremely alternative"?'

Dec 31, 2025

In a lot of appearance based improvement communities, alternative fashion tends to be turned away or unrecommended. Even if the individual giving the advice enjoys the aesthetic. Comments similar to "I like it but I don't think most other people would, and if your goal is to be more widely appealing, you can't do it," etc. Which makes me wanna ask - can you have both? Or does being alternative itself make it impossible to be appealing to most people? Does it change based on generations or culture/societal norms at the time? etc.

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• Forum: Beauty and Aesthetics

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Discussion - [QOTW #9] How much should you invest in your appearance?

Is there a specific amount or percentage you think people should put in to improve their appearance? When is it too much? When do you feel like people are complaining but didn't invest enough? etc. These can include surgeries, products, wellness, etc.

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