I think I cheated on my girlfriend

Edmond Dantès

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For the ones who know me, I'm Irish. I was just at the Fleadh in Belfast.
I drank way too much, and I'm pretty sure I made out with some random girl.

I'm genuinely shitting it rn; I was with my friends and I'm scared to ask them rn.
I just have a faint memory of going with someone in the city. fuckckckckckck
 
In case this actually happened
One of two things is true: either it happened or it didn't. The longer you put this off the harder it'll be.

If you did harm, there is a window to address and make amends that will close very soon. Unfortunately friend, this may be one of those things you have to force yourself to face head on with some urgency and let what happens happen.

If there is ANY hope of rebuilding trust, anything at all working against that trust rebuilidng will be devastating.
 
Why are you scared to ask your friends?
One of two things is true: either it happened or it didn't. The longer you put this off the harder it'll be.

If you did harm, there is a window to address and make amends that will close very soon. Unfortunately friend, this may be one of those things you have to force yourself to face head on with some urgency and let what happens happen.

If there is ANY hope of rebuilding trust, anything at all working against that trust rebuilidng will be devastating.
I asked my friends, and they're saying that I didn't. I don't know what to think man.
I just have the faint memory of it, but I'd have guessed that one of them would have some notion of it.
 
I asked my friends, and they're saying that I didn't. I don't know what to think man.
I just have the faint memory of it, but I'd have guessed that one of them would have some notion of it.
Is it possible you dreamt it or something?

You could still possibly mention it to your girl, saying you don't remember but you wouldn't feel good not saying, if you think it'd bite you in the ass in the future. Right now your only real "evidence" is nothing did happen (would be odd for your friends to lie to you unless you think they're trying to protect you for whatever reason).
 
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