Seeking Advice Social Maxxing

[aajonus]

Over the recent months, I've been using many soft max techniques aswell as improving my diet drastically. My skin has cleared up, aswell improving and growing out my hair. I am 18 years old and going to uni in september and would hopefully like to get a gf. However, I struggle with talking to new people, not because I lack confidence but because I genuinely don't know how to present myself. I've been told that I am attractive in the past and I am lucky to be 6'4 and hmtn ish. I just don't know how to startc conversations and make people interested in me, like i've seen my friends do effortlessly at school. Please can I have some help.

 

[The WifeThe Wife is verified member.]

Pro tip: don't try and make friends. Instead try and find things you enjoy doing. If you're passionate about community service, volunteer somewhere regularly. Like nerdy stuff? Play in your local game shop's game nights. The more time you spend doing things you enjoy, the more you'll be recognized. Join community and socialization tends to happen naturally

 

[benny.]

easiest way to make friends is to just do the shit you would do normally

don't force convos, just try some new hobbies and things will tend to come more naturally

 

[aajonus]

easiest way to make friends is to just do the shit you would do normally

don't force convos, just try some new hobbies and things will tend to come more naturally

Thankyou man I appreciate it

 

[aajonus]

Pro tip: don't try and make friends. Instead try and find things you enjoy doing. If you're passionate about community service, volunteer somewhere regularly. Like nerdy stuff? Play in your local game shop's game nights. The more time you spend doing things you enjoy, the more you'll be recognized. Join community and socialization tends to happen naturally

Thanks bro I really appreciate this

 

[zen zen]

I got most of the important friends and people I've met in my life just by doing something i enjoy like doing a hobby you love

By what you say your height or looks now won't stop u from getting friends so I suggest just doing something you love and people who are just like you doing the same stuff will come to you naturally and you'll make friends it's not rocket science don't worry

 

[aajonus]

I got most of the important friends and people I've met in my life just by doing something i enjoy like doing a hobby you love

By what you say your height or looks now won't stop u from getting friends so I suggest just doing something you love and people who are just like you doing the same stuff will come to you naturally and you'll make friends it's not rocket science don't worry

Thanks man, It's something that I'm pushing myself to get better at