you don't have to be nice to people you don't like, pointless insulting is not allowed though
most forums aren't, but that's not a bad thing in general it depends on what people prefer, I've been on .org for a year and I had some fun there for example for other people it's not very beneficial if they really just want to talk about looksmaxxing or self improvement
also i doubt that we will go mainstream anytime soon, it will be a long process but i'm willing to try it because if it works out people can have a forum where they can post their pictures without being scared to be connected with any toxic incel community