Learn to love yourself before trying to love someone else
Self love is necessary, you're nothing without it.
I haven't been in a relationship for 7months now, 2months without a talking stage or anything else, I'm giving myself time to heal, to love myself, what can I say - it's going pretty well.
I can safely say that I'm proud of myself, I love myself.
I've also noticed that people like me more when I started being myself.