What is your opinion in celibacy before marriage?

I don’t have a choice except to preserve my virginity, otherwise I will never be able to get married
I’m not allowed to ride horses, ride a bike, or do any gymnastic exercises that involve intense stretching between the legs, such as the splits, because my mother is afraid that my hymen could tear and that my future husband might think I’ve ‘been with someone’💀
hate this oldschool mentality, like it's kinda obvious for everyone nowadays that u can be a virgin and not have your hymen