I've met Gengar 4 times in real life!

The only person I'd ever hit on is @Yun. But people keep saying Gengar is not as bad looking as he claims, and in my head he's twink adjacent.
He's not a twink, and he doesn't look bad, he's just really self hating. He kept sending me his beard update photos on IG and he just looks like an average adulthood man.