We don't care about free speech. We're not a government or anything where users have "rights", we're a private website that makes a very clear effort to be transparent and to allow users to make their own decisions, but you're using our private service and we simply don't want that content here.
We give very generous warnings and everything but some users simply are not able to adapt - and that's perfectly fine, they can use one of the many other services that caters to them and their desires. We don't have to be everyone's cup of tea and we're not going to be flexible with our policies for users who don't even want to be here really.
If users have contributed to the site meaningfully, then it's HIGHLY unlikely they'd get anything but a verbal warning. So we're not going to ban users who genuinely want to participate. But the people we ban are not those kinds of users.
We want to focus on actual self improvement, not a specific ideology. Focusing on freedom of speech is mainly ideological and has nothing to do with self improvement. .org is a website based off of ideology; incel, blackpill, Looksmaxxing, etc, are all ideological and their policies reflect that.
But we're not .org is all, and we don't make any effort to pretend we are. We love .org but it's very different from .guide.