not sure how to respond to this tbh, i dont wanna run in circles but at the end of the day it's ur life. u feel like ur awesome n somehow get the short end of the stick 24/7 for no real reason, im inclined to believe u. i dont know u like that so i can only speculate based on what u post.
probably wouldnt hurt. idk if it needs to be specific to politics but in general u'd find a woman more likely to align with what u think a woman should be if u start there