[QOTW #6] Can you love a partner without physical attraction?
To me that's wild, I legitimately think that's like degrading / disrespectful territory
Kinda agree with you, but it's complex. I do think being sexually/physically attracted to your partner is extremely important, if not you'll just resent them overtime and the lack of actual lack of sexuality can kill the couple or lead to cheating/open relationship stuff.
But personality matters also, a lot. No matters how hot (s)he is, unless you're into that, being a shit partner will nuke your relationship, from you by your actions or from them because they can't stand you anymore.
That's said attraction isn't equal in both sexes because most men will be attracted to a kind/nice girl with basic feminine features like long hair, an ass and boobs, but men will also need to accept that their woman's body will change drastically (even if she check the diet and stays fit) after delivering his offsprings, who will turns into a kind of "mother of my children" attraction/love rather than "my smoke show of a gf" type of attraction, who can kill a relationship too.
Complex subject but overall both personality and looks matter