the only real way to develop your social skills is through practice
they are basically like a muscle:if you train them regularly, they get stronger, and if you don’t use them for a long time, they get weaker
so, the more you talk to people, the easier it becomes
start with simple things
talk to guys more often, ask questions, keep the conversation going, and meet new people. even if it feels awkward at first, that’s completely normal, it’s just part of the process
dont wait until you suddenly feel confident to start
You need to take action first and confidence will come with practice