what to do as an ethnic?

If you’re looking for girls for a one-night stand, then yeah, putting on a YN persona and making yourself more appealing to the niche you’re trying to attract would probably work

but if you want to build a genuine LTR, then I’d rather be with someone who likes me for who I actually am
the right girl isn’t going to expect you to fit some tiktok or wattpad stereotype of what a black guy is “supposed” to be